From a post by David
Damian Figueroa
Forgetting where we came from is
denying who we are. On this National Cesar Chavez Day and National Farmworker
Awareness Week, I’d also like to pay homage to my friend, Dolores
Huerta and my mother, my family, and my ancestors who all
worked in the fields. God bless them all and my gratitude for paving the way
for all of us. Here are some treasured photos of my family in the fields of
Arizona.
When I was a young boy, my mother
repeated dichos, Mexican folk sayings, and American quotes as part of everyday
life. My mother had been a child farmworker and only reached the sixth grade.
What she may have been lacking in a formal education, she made up for with
powerful words of wisdom. Dichos were her way of teaching me to become a better
person. Some of my earliest memories are of being out in the agricultural
fields of Buckeye, Arizona, with her, my aunts, and my cousins. Hardship was a
part of life and some weeks we worked cleaning chicken coops to put food on the
table. Mom would always say something positive to keep us going—something as
simple and promising as “Life is not always going to be like this” or “This is
only temporary”, and “Todo es possible” (Anything is possible).
My mom and aunts had early morning
rituals. I remember waking up to the usual smells of beans cooking on the
stove, coffee percolating in the pot, and bleach from the freshly mopped
floors. Also, the comforting sounds of mom singing Spanish songs, eggs and
potatoes hissing on the stove, and the rolling pin hitting the kitchen counter
repeatedly as mom pounded out tortillas. Still dark outside, I remember we
would make the trek out to the fields at LVL Ranch near Gila Bend, Arizona.
My
brother Jimmy, the cousins, and I would pile up in the back seat of the Impala
and we’d fall asleep using each other as pillows. As soon as we arrived, I’d
place all the lunch burritos on the car dashboard so they would keep warm. I
used to sharpen all the hoes that we’d used to chop the weeds that would grow
between cotton plants in the fields. One day I sliced my right pointing finger
up pretty good.
My mom and aunts were always consulting with each another on
what to wear to the upcoming dance at the American Legion. They’d always tease
each other and burst into laughter as they each proclaimed who would be the
prettiest and get the most attention on the dance floor. When they were young
girls and through their adolescent years, they used to pick cotton and carry
huge burlap bags on their backs all day. Later in life, mom and her sisters all
lived in constant back pain.
They all walked hunched back and with a limp. For
me, working in the fields was an education you cannot learn from books or in
school. My mother taught me to have faith, pray, sew, cook, clean house, wash
clothes, iron, change a tire, run a lawn mower, and even do arts and crafts.
She’d tell me, “You have to learn how do to all of these things because one day
I will not be here.” She was right. Mom passed away tragically when she was
still young. When a parent passes away, the loudest voice we hear is theirs.
The dicho that has probably stood out most in my life is “Con dinero se puede
comprar libros pero no la educación.” “You can purchase books with money, but
money will not buy you an education or proper manners.”
The most important thing I learned
from mom was from one of her dichos, “Forgetting where you came from is denying
who you are.” She’d always remind me that although we were poor, we were happy,
and that God was not forgetting us.
My mother will live forever with me
through the love and wisdom she gave to me through her dichos. They have left
an indelible impression in my mind, and I am her grateful son.
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Rudy Arredondo
President/CEO/Founder
Latino Farmers & Ranchers International, Inc.
1231-B Good Hope Road, S. E.
Washington, DC 20020
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